zondag 22 september 2013
No rest for the wicked
Why am I writing this on a Sunday evening you might wonder. I have been rather busy these last weekends and during the week I am working. It has been the most wonderful summer. Sunny and warm. Almost every evening, I could still sit in the garden when I got home from work. Some weekends, we took care of some of our grandchildren, while their parents were working in their future home. We had a plastic inflatable pool in the garden and they loved that. Those of you who read my previous scriblings know that houses play a big role in my life at the moment. My parental home is now officially another family's property and concern. The deed was signed last Thursday. We spent some Saturdays clearing out the house. It took 3 of us 2 full days to clear out the garage alone (that has a cellar). Not as bad as the attic but almost. Saying goodbye to the house was not that emotional for me. My childhood home is actually the house we lived in with my grandmother and was actually her house, untill we moved to the house my parents had build when I was ten. My childhood to me, are the years we lived in the small dead end street. There were less cars back then but because it was a cul-de-sac, almost none came into our street. Many children of about my age were living there so we played outside on the street most of the time. It was even safe enough for roller skating; The old ladies would sit outside on chairs on the pavement in front of their houses when the weather was good. They would be watching us, chatting and knitting. We would sometimes go visit them and play card games. I spent a lot of time with my grandmother and I have fond memories of her. She was in her late sixties when I was born, so I had an old grandmother. I guess I spent so much time with her because I am the eldest and it was normal for me to be with her when my younger brother was born and later my sister. But I remember I really liked being with her. She sometimes cooked for the 2 of us and I would have dinner with her and not with the rest of the family. My grandmother died when I was 12 at the age of 80. I remember the funeral and clearly remember it made me sad to realise I would never see her again. I can only hope to be in my grandchildren's hearts as she still is in mine. I do have good memories of te house we just sold, but somehow I don't consider those childhood memories. The next step now is our youngest son moving house tomorow. I have taken off some time from work to help out a bit with the decorating; All this physical activity does have an added value. I am getting fitter and I am actually losing weight without strict diet. On the days that I was not working in one of the houses, I spent some time with the grandchildren. Yesterday we spent the afternoon with 2 of them. I enjoy that immensely and they are so energetic that I don't have problems to sleep well at night. A busy time is coming on at work too and the rehearsals with the theatre group for the play in January have started 2 weeks ago, aswell as my Italian course. No rest for the wicked as the saying goes.
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